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Parenting | A New Understanding Through the Three Principles 


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Parenting | A New Understanding Through the Three Principles

 

Parenting is one of life’s most rewarding, challenging, and evolving roles. From the moment we become parents, we’re met with endless moments of joy, love, and connection, but also with stress, doubt, and frustration. The responsibility of raising children can feel overwhelming at times, and many parents find themselves searching for answers, methods, or techniques to get it right. However, through the understanding of the Three PrinciplesMind, Thought, and Consciousness—we gain a fresh perspective on parenting that brings more ease, connection, and insight into our relationship with our children. 


The Three Principles reveal that much of the stress, frustration, and pressure we experience as parents comes not from the challenges themselves but from our thoughts about those challenges. By understanding how our thoughts shape our experience, we can begin to approach parenting with more patience, clarity, and trust in our innate wisdom. Parenting becomes less about following a rigid set of strategies and more about tapping into the natural intelligence that already exists within us. This understanding allows us to navigate the ups and downs of parenting with more confidence and grace. 



Thought and the Parenting Experience 


Much of our experience as parents is shaped by the thoughts we have about our children, ourselves, and the challenges we face. These thoughts can range from joyful reflections on the moments we cherish to anxious concerns about our children’s future or our own abilities as parents. When we get caught up in negative or insecure thoughts—such as, “I’m not doing enough,” or “My child should be behaving differently”—parenting can feel overwhelming, frustrating, or even exhausting. 


For example, a parent might feel frustrated when their child isn’t listening, and the thought, “They never listen to me,” can spiral into feelings of inadequacy or resentment. This is where the Three Principles offer a powerful shift in perspective. We learn that these thoughts are not permanent—they are simply ideas passing through our minds. Just because we’re thinking them doesn’t mean they are true or fixed. These thoughts are transient, and they often reflect our state of mind in the moment, not the reality of the situation. 


By recognizing the temporary nature of our thoughts, we start to gain more clarity and patience in our parenting. We see that many of the frustrations we experience are created by our own thinking, not by our children’s behavior or external circumstances. This awareness allows us to step back, gain perspective, and respond to our children from a place of calm rather than reacting out of frustration. As our thinking shifts, so too does our experience, allowing us to approach parenting with a sense of ease. 



Why Parenting Feels Overwhelming 


Parenting feels overwhelming when we are caught in a cycle of self-judgment or fear. The pressures we place on ourselves to be perfect parents, coupled with the natural unpredictability of raising children, can make it seem like we are constantly falling short. But often, the overwhelm comes not from the circumstances themselves but from the thoughts we attach to those circumstances. 


For example, when your child is throwing a tantrum, your thoughts might tell you, “I’m a terrible parent,” or “I can’t handle this.” These thoughts amplify the stress of the moment, making it feel more intense than it needs to be. But once we recognize that these thoughts are just passing mental states, we begin to realize that we don’t need to take them so seriously. The tantrum is a part of your child’s experience in the moment, and it doesn’t reflect your parenting abilities or their long-term development. The thoughts will pass, and when they do, your perspective will shift as well. 


The Three Principles remind us that thought is always in motion, and as our thoughts shift, our experience changes. By recognizing that we are not defined by our temporary thoughts, we free ourselves from the weight of overwhelm and begin to approach parenting with more flexibility and grace



Consciousness: Becoming Aware of Our Thoughts as Parents

 

Consciousness allows us to become aware of the thoughts that are shaping our parenting experience. It gives us the ability to step back and observe our thinking, rather than getting caught up in it. When we expand our awareness, we begin to see that much of the stress or frustration we feel is a result of our thinking in the moment, not necessarily our children’s behavior. 


For instance, when we feel irritated because our child isn’t following instructions, it’s easy to assume that the frustration is caused by the child’s behavior. But consciousness helps us see that our feelings are created by thought—it’s our interpretation of the situation, our expectations, and our internal dialogue that generate the frustration. This awareness gives us the space to pause, reflect, and choose how we respond, rather than reacting out of frustration. 


When we become aware of our thoughts as parents, we approach situations with more calm, understanding, and patience. Instead of getting swept up in our emotions, we’re able to respond to our children with empathy. This level of awareness also helps us recognize when we’re projecting our own insecurities or fears onto our children. By stepping back and observing our thoughts, we can reconnect with a deeper sense of clarity and respond from a place of love, not fear. 



Mind: Trusting in the Wisdom of Parenting 


Mind is the deeper intelligence that guides all of life, and it also guides us as parents. This wisdom is always available to us, even in the midst of parenting challenges. When we trust in this deeper intelligence, we stop feeling the need to control or manage every aspect of our children’s lives. Instead, we allow our parenting to flow naturally, trusting that we will have the insights and clarity we need in each moment. 


For example, when we trust in the wisdom of Mind, we stop worrying about every decision we make as parents. We recognize that we don’t need to have all the answers or follow a strict set of rules to be good parents. Instead, we can trust that our intuition and inner wisdom will guide us toward the right decisions at the right time. Parenting becomes less about following external strategies and more about connecting with the wisdom that is always available within us. 


This trust also helps us connect with our children on a deeper level. When we stop trying to control or micromanage every situation, we create more space for love, understanding, and mutual respect to grow. We learn to listen to our children more deeply, understanding that they, too, are guided by their own wisdom. This creates an environment of trust and open communication, where both parents and children feel heard, respected, and supported. 



Navigating Parenting Challenges with More Ease 


Parenting will always come with its challenges—whether it’s dealing with tantrums, sibling rivalry, or navigating the teenage years. But the understanding of the Three Principles gives us a framework for approaching these challenges with more ease and clarity. Here are some practical ways to apply the Three Principles to parenting: 


  1. Recognize Thought in the Moment: When you feel frustrated or overwhelmed, remind yourself that your feelings are being created by thought in the moment. The more you recognize this, the easier it is to let go of the frustration and approach the situation with a clear mind. 


  2. Create Space Through Awareness: Practice observing your thoughts without judgment. When you become aware of the thoughts that are shaping your parenting experience, you create space for a more calm and thoughtful response. 


  3. Trust in Mind: Trust that the deeper intelligence of Mind is always available to guide you in your parenting journey. You don’t need to have all the answers—trust that the right insights will arise when you need them. 


  4. Be Present with Your Children: Focus on being fully present with your children, free from distractions. This presence allows you to connect with them on a deeper level and respond to their needs with more empathy and understanding. 


 

Conclusion 


Parenting with ease and clarity comes from understanding the role of Thought and trusting in the wisdom of Mind. By becoming aware of our thinking and reconnecting with our innate parenting wisdom, we can navigate the challenges of parenting with more patience, understanding, and confidence. Parenting is not about getting everything right—it’s about connecting with our children from a place of love, trust, and wisdom. Through the understanding of the Three Principles, we gain the insight and resilience needed to support our children and ourselves on this journey. 



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