Rediscovering Connection with George & Linda Pransky
- Pransky & Associates
- Oct 5, 2022
- 2 min read
Updated: 15 hours ago
In every relationship, there are moments when we feel disconnected from our partner. Whether it’s due to the busyness of life, misunderstandings, or simply drifting apart, many couples experience periods where the spark seems to fade. In their insightful video, Rediscovering Connection, George and Linda Pransky share powerful wisdom from the Three Principles that can help couples rediscover connection, rekindle their bond, and create lasting closeness.
Understanding the Source of Disconnection
Often, we believe that circumstances—stress, disagreements, or external pressures—are the cause of distance between us and our partner. However, disconnection arises from within, specifically from the thoughts we hold about our relationship in any given moment. When we are caught up in negative or insecure thinking, it becomes easy to view our partner through a distorted lens. These thoughts create feelings of frustration, resentment, or even hopelessness, making it harder to connect. But by recognizing that these thoughts are just temporary and not reflective of the true nature of our relationship, we can begin to move past them.
The Power of Thought in Relationships
In the video, George and Linda highlight how thought plays a pivotal role in shaping the quality of our relationships. They explain that our experience of our partner is created by the thoughts we entertain about them. If we are stuck in critical or judgmental thinking, we may start to feel disconnected. But as we allow our thoughts to settle, we create space for new insights and feelings of connection to emerge naturally.
This understanding is transformative. It allows us to realize that we are never truly disconnected from our partner; we are only temporarily caught in thought. By recognizing this, couples can shift from conflict and misunderstanding to deeper empathy and connection.
In the video, they explain that the feeling of connection with our partner often returns when we stop trying to fix the relationship and instead focus on experiencing more goodwill, presence, and understanding. The Pranskys remind us that relationships don’t need to be “worked on” in a traditional sense; rather, they flourish when we allow space for insight, patience, and love to surface.
Whether you’re currently facing challenges in your relationship or simply looking to strengthen your connection with your partner, this video offers timeless insights into creating a more harmonious and fulfilling partnership.
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